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Are you tired of making the same relationship mistakes over and over again and getting the same outcome…a failed relationship?

Have you wondered why your search for a committed partner is so difficult?

Are you interested in converting blind love and lust into self-love and a long-lasting relationship?

I’ve walked in those shoes many times over. The good news is, I finally have it right! My mission is to help others avoid the same serious, repeated mistakes that kept me jumping in and out of relationships and marriages for years.

Please scroll below for complimentary videos, advice, take a relationship quiz and check out my 2nd edition book, Ring EXchange! As someone who can offer first-hand wisdom and insights, I welcome you to schedule a 45-minute “Personal Conversation” with me for just $50.00. I would love to listen to your challenges, help guide and offer you fresh approaches to help with your situation. 

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Ring EXchange Book and Relationship Cards Featured on WFSB's Better Connecticut! 

Ring EXchange Book and Relationship Cards Featured on WFSB's Better Connecticut! 

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About Pam

Pam lives in the San Francisco Bay Area in Northern California. She has worked in the marketing sector of multi-national high technology companies in Silicon Valley for the past 20+ years.

Raised outside a small town in Western North Carolina, Pam spent her adolescence on Long Island, New York, and her early adulthood in upstate New York. She received her Bachelor’s degree in English with a minor in Psychology from The University at Albany-SUNY, State University of New York.

Pam refers to herself as a “hybrid individual,” since a wide variety of people and places have influenced her world view and her “storytelling” style. Ring EXchange – Finally Getting it Right: Life Lessons from a Multiple Marrier is the second edition of her first book, Ring EXchange – Adventures of a Multiple Marrier.

In addition to being an author, Pam is a public speaker and often refers to herself as a “Relationship Strategist” whose mission it is to help others avoid the critical mistakes she made. Pam has appeared on such programs as FOX43 The Morning ShowFiOS1 News Long IslandHuff Post Live, “The Nancy Redd Show”, January Jones “Sharing Success Stories” and Dr.Jo Anne White’s “Power Your Life” TV and Radio Programs, along with numerous radio shows. You’ll find Pam’s advice on marriage and relationships in popular publications, as well.

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Book Reviews

Whether you have ever been in a bad relationship, a bad marriage, or just keep repeating unhealthy patterns, Pamela Evan’s The Ring EXchange is for you! By candidly sharing her own personal experiences, she helps decode the mysteries of why we seek the wrong person, how we can discover self-love and acceptance, and ultimately guides us to foolproof ways in which we can actually realize that dreams of genuine and enduring love can be a reality. Written with compassion and humor, The Ring EXchange is for any man or woman who has ever been in a challenging or dead-end relationship and questions: How Did I Get Here? 

Allison Kluger, Television Executive, Media Consultant, and Instructor of Reputation Management at Stanford’s Graduate School of Business 

A funny, smart and delightful book! The author’s conversational style had me rapidly turning the pages to learn why she made so many treks “down the aisle” and how she came to discover that her behavior and relationship patterns were huge contributors to the seemingly endless cycle of disheartening marriages. Anyone can learn from her relationship mistakes (now corrected!) and helpful insights no matter one’s age, marital status or station in life. This book is a must read for anyone who has ever whined about a troubled marriage. Pamela deals with the complaints, the causes and the cures! If you seek a successful marriage, the solution is right here!

- January Jones, Radio Talk Host: “January Jones sharing Success Stories” at iHeart Radio, Author: Thou Shalt Not Whine….The Eleventh Commandment

After reading Ring Exchange, I’ve concluded that the fifth time is a charm—at least, for the author. In this entertaining and instructive book, Pam Evans takes us on a delightful journey through the life of a “multiple marrier”. Along the way, she helps us discover why we fall into self-defeating relationship patterns, and reveals the red flags that should not be so hard to recognize. Sharing her insight, humor, and vulnerability, Pam has produced a relationship guide that is both a manual for men and a workbook for women.

- Spencer Christian, ABC TV

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